{"id":12087,"date":"2025-12-31T23:11:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-31T13:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nightwolfsden.com\/blog\/?p=12087"},"modified":"2025-12-22T15:10:58","modified_gmt":"2025-12-22T05:10:58","slug":"%f0%9f%8c%95-2025-reflection-2026-intentions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nightwolfsden.com\/blog\/2025\/12\/31\/%f0%9f%8c%95-2025-reflection-2026-intentions\/","title":{"rendered":"\ud83c\udf15 2025 Reflection & 2026 Intentions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

2025 asked me to slow down, listen to my body, and trust that growth can still happen in the quiet seasons. As I look ahead to 2026, I\u2019m carrying gratitude for what\u2019s passed and gentle hope for what\u2019s to come.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

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As another year draws to a close, I\u2019ve been taking a few quiet evenings to reflect on everything 2025 brought – the lessons, the unexpected turns, and the small joys that made even the hard days worthwhile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This year was a wild mix of challenge and growth – one filled with learning, change, and a deeper appreciation for what truly matters. Between juggling family life, health issues, and diving back into university study after a 20-year break, I often felt stretched thin, but also strangely grounded. Returning to study has been both exciting and daunting – rediscovering learning habits, writing essays again, and building confidence in a whole new field.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There were weeks where my body simply said \u201cnot today,\u201d and I had to listen. I\u2019m learning (slowly) that rest isn\u2019t failure – it\u2019s part of the process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Family, Health & Milestones<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

2025 wasn\u2019t always smooth sailing. Family health challenges tested our strength and patience but also deepened our gratitude. Through specialist visits, recovery days, and moments of worry and hope, we were reminded how precious good health – and good support – truly are. Later in the year, we received some good health news that felt like a collective sigh of relief – a reminder to celebrate small victories. Then a fractured wrist in late November that threw a spanner in the works, but we managed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2025 saw James and I celebrate 19 years of marriage – nearly two decades of laughter, growth, and shared adventures. It was also six years without Mum, and that anniversary brought quiet reflection. Grief changes shape over time – it softens, but it never truly leaves. Remembering her continues to ground me, especially during moments of change and celebration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another milestone was K starting at Indie School – a big step filled with pride, nerves, and excitement. Watching them find their rhythm has been one of the most rewarding parts of the year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After six years of helping with foster caring for Just Cats, 2025 became the year to pause. It was bittersweet stepping back, but the break has offered time to rest, refocus, and prepare for what\u2019s next. <\/p>\n\n\n

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Creativity, Community & Connection<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Despite everything, creativity remained a steady companion. Whether through journaling, photography, or small creative projects, art became a lifeline – a reminder to notice beauty even in hard seasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve found my creative community this year – people who get it<\/em>, who understand the quiet magic of making and storytelling. I also helped facilitate some creative sessions for local youth, watching them light up with ideas and confidence. That sense of connection – community and creativity interwoven – has been one of the greatest gifts of the year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And of course, coaching school hockey again was another highlight. Watching my Division 2 kids bring home another<\/em> Country Gold win made my heart burst. Standing on the sideline, watching them give it their all, reminded me of what resilience really looks like.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Lessons from 2025<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\ud83d\udd6f\ufe0f Rest is a form of resistance.<\/strong> Slowing down doesn\u2019t mean giving up – it means honouring what I need.
\ud83c\udf38 The small things matter.<\/strong> A tidy corner, a cup of tea, a handmade gift, a quiet walk – these are the real treasures.
\ud83c\udf15 Creativity doesn\u2019t need an audience<\/strong> to be valid.
\ud83d\udd25 The magic is always in the ordinary<\/strong> – you just have to notice it.
\u2764\ufe0f Health is everything.<\/strong> Never take a good day for granted.
\ud83c\udf31 Learning keeps you young.<\/strong> It\u2019s never too late to start something new.
\ud83c\udf27\ufe0f Grief and love coexist.<\/strong> They shape who we are and how we grow.
\ud83c\udf3e Change requires courage.<\/strong> Keep moving forward, even when it\u2019s uncomfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Intentions for 2026<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

As 2026 begins, my focus is balance<\/em> – the sweet spot between doing and being, creating and resting, giving and receiving. I want the year to feel sustainable, intentional, and joy-filled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n